- Know the facts about what age to start potty training.There is no set age to potty train — every child is different. Though there are common starting ages for boys and girls, what matters most is whether your child shows signs of readiness.
- Check whether your child is ready to potty train. Your child’s actions and interests, like pulling at wet diapers or talking about the potty, will help show you when you should start. Also, make sure your child has the skills they’ll need. Take our readiness quiz to help decide if it’s time.
- Get the equipment you need. Toddlers’ bodies are smaller than adults, so consider getting a seat or toilet for your child to use. Narrow down your options, and then let them help pick the best potty training seat or toilet for your situation.
You might also want trinkets, wipe and other supplies that they can help choose. Pull-Ups® training pants can protect them as they learn while also letting them feel like a Big Kid.
- Show them the ropes. It’s hard to remember what it was like not knowing how to go to the bathroom. But your child needs you to show them! Model the actions involved and help them practice.
- Learn about methods for potty training. The American Academy of Pediatrics and the American Academy of Family Physicians both support the methods used in the Pull-Ups® Potty Partnership approach. There are many different styles for how to potty train a toddler out there, which is a good thing because each child is different!
The 3-day potty training method or a weekend potty training boot camp is out of reach for most parents and children. The traditional potty training method is also unrealistic for many. But most important, read up, talk to your pediatrician and other trusted sources, and choose what will work best for YOUR family.
- Tailor your approach to your child. No doubt you’re looking for easy potty training, so match your approach to your toddler’s personality to help them learn in a way that’s easy for them. Use our quiz to identify your child’s personality type and connect with the tips and tricks that match your child on the Pull-Ups® website.
- Get informed about potty training boys and girls differently. Though you can find advice on how to potty train a girl and there are some tips that are specific to boys, those are just common experiences, not hard-and-fast rules. The most important factor in how to potty train is still your child’s personality.
- Make a plan. Once you’ve got the supplies, the method and the specifics for your toddler nailed down, plan out your schedule of how to start.
- Host a fun kick off. Becoming a Big Kid is a big deal to your toddler — make it a special occasion! Create an official certificate, come up with a potty training song to use together or try another idea for how to make potty training fun for you and your child from Day 1.
- Say goodbye to diapers. Transitioning them out of their baby garment will help you send the message that it’s time to do something new. Pull-Ups® training pants can be moved up and down by your child as they try to use the potty. Find more info about Pull-Ups® sizes and Pull-Ups® coupons on our website.
- Choose clothing wisely. Make training easier with outfits that are easy for your child to get on and off.
- Get your child on board. You can’t potty train your toddler without your toddler! You can use strategies to make potty training successful by partnering with your child.
- Make it fun. It’s true: you and your child CAN have fun potty training! Keep your toddler motivated by celebrating milestones throughout the journey with high fives and other potty training incentives that your child finds fun.
- Do activities that inspire your child. Engaging your child in potty training activities like crafts can both get your toddler interested in potty training and keep their attention and excitement as they go.
- Make it a game. There’s nothing better than playing and learning at the same time! Use our educational potty training games to get your child up and running.
- Choose your words. What you say can have a big effect. Match the praise you give your child to your child’s personality so it motivates your toddler more.
- Use motivational tools. Printable tools like sequence cards and potty training charts can help teach your child in a fun way. Get support for yourself from the Pull-Ups® Voice Assistant for smart speakers, which can provide daily tips, set potty break reminders and more to motivate your toddler — and make potty training easier for you!
- Reward success. Which potty training rewards you should use depends on what your child responds to best. Some toddlers like tangible items like small toys and other potty training prizes while others enjoy experiences like dance parties. You can also get a call from a Disney character to congratulate your child on their potty training journey!
- Stay consistent. Know that your child may have some on-again, off-again success but you can help your child by being consistent. Switching back and forth between diapers and training pants can be confusing, so stick to a product and routine.
- Keep a positive tone. It’s natural to get frustrated, but take deep breaths when you need them, and keep things positive even when your child refuses to use the potty.
- Get out of a rut. If feelings are still positive but your child seems to be losing interest, try changing it up with a different approach or new incentives. Take a moment to double check that your child is truly ready to potty train.
- Take a break when needed. Potty training is not linear, and setbacks are normal. If you are getting into power struggles while potty training a stubborn toddler, it’s a signal to take a break and try again when your child is less resistant. Forcing them will only lead to negative results in the long term.
- Get the facts about nighttime potty training. It may be frustrating to hear, but staying dry at night is something your child must grow into — you can’t teach your child how to potty train at night. Do your best to establish a healthy bedtime routine, and consider using Pull-Ups® Night*Time training pants for extra protection. They’ll help keep the bed dry while your child develops.
- Recognize regression. If your child was doing well but has started having accidents again, check for the common triggers of potty training regression like constipation or changes in routine, and try these tips for getting your toddler back on track.
- Reach out for advice. You don’t have to figure this out on your own! Between your pediatrician, other parents and legitimate websites with advice (like this one!), you are surrounded by potty training resources that can help you find the best way to potty train your toddler.
Top Potty Training Tips for Boys and Girls
Wondering when to start potty training? Not sure whether to use a potty training toilet or a potty seat? Looking for advice on how to potty train a boy or a girl? Worried this is going to stress you out? Have no fear — Pull-Ups® has helped potty train 60 million Big Kids and counting!* (US and Canada)
Your child has gone from being a baby to a toddler, and it’s a wonderful new era. Like all moments with your child, potty training is an opportunity to have an emotional connection. Plus, you’ll be teaching your toddler a skill that will save you time and eliminate messy clean-ups.
Read on for our tips to make potty training fun, fast and easy!